Welcome to London Swingers ClubAn Adult Party Club providing Erotic fun for swinging couples, single guys, single girls.
A first visit to a swingers club - like any new experience can be daunting. Typical feelings include excitement, a fear of the unknown and worries about sexual adequacy or appearance.
These feelings are completely normal, we all experience them to some degree and even experienced swingers may experience these feelings when visitng a new club. The good news is: the swingers community is very friendly, forgiving and open.
The first step you'll need to take is deciding on the type of club you would like to visit. There are may different "specialty" clubs.
Locating A Club
There many methods available to finding the specific club you would like to visit. The best method is a recommendation from friends, but if you don't know any swingers, and that is one reason you would like to visit a club!
The simplest way to locate a club in your area is via the internet.
Once you have decided on a club, visit their website if they have one, and take a look around, most sites at a minimum list their hours, special events and contact information use search engines to access online reviews from various websites.
Make use of the contact information provided. Contact the club management to verify the hours, events, membership and door fees, etc.
The Big Moment
What should you wear?
The answer to this depends on several factors. In general, wear what you would wear on a first date to a night club. No excessively baggy or torn jeans, no tee-shirts, leave your baseball cap at home. Ladies, this is your chance to break out that super-sexy little black dress and sexy new shoes you've been wanting to wear!
If the club is having a special event that night, consider taking part! Most special events involve a theme ranging from toga parties, to wet tee-shirt contests, to hot schoolgirl night. These are great ice-brakers.
Many people bring a change of "play clothes" that they change into when the mood hits.
What should we bring?
Most clubs are BYOB, so be sure to bring your favorite Alcoholic Beverage. In general your hosts will provide you with finger foods, soft drinks and snacks,from refreshment Bars usually at reasonable prices.
Some clubs provide lockers for your personal belongings, or locked cloakroom areas.
What should we say?
Remember, the people you meet at this club will likely surprise you by how open and friendly they are. so say "Hello!".
People have many approaches to starting a conversation in a club, preferred methods are to shake hands and introduce yourself and your partner.
People may walk up to you and say anything from "Hi, to a a more detailed exchange - eg. what are you looking for ?'
What you say isn't nearly as important as how you say it, and your body language when you say it!
Smile! If you want someone to approach you, look friendly and like you are having fun.
What should we do?
The short answer to this is: whatever you and your partner are comfortable with.
Chances are, on your first visit to a club, you will feel somewhat intimidated. When you visit the first time, spend time asking questions about etiquette, rules, and who is who. If you decide to play, be sure you stay within your rules, and have fun!
Typically when you visit a club for the first time, the club management will have either a staff member or a trusted club member show you around. This is a great opportunity to find out about the rules of that particular club, what the etiquette of the rooms is, who you should get in touch with regarding any questions or concerns you may have and where to go.
Conclusion
Visiting a swingers club is a wonderful way to spice up a relationship - even if you only play with your partner.
Approach it with a non-judgemental attitude and no expectations and you will have a great time.
If you make the effort to be presentable, open, friendly and happy, you will make great, lifelong friends, and that makes the visit worthwhile in itself. Read Independent visitor Club reviews here : Click the Banner |
